If you’re getting pressured, try these responses:

“What’s the big deal? It’s not like you’ve never done this before.”
“I don’t want to do it again.”
“The big deal is that it’s my body and my decision.”

“You did it before. Don’t you love me as much?”
“I care about you a lot. That’s why I want to wait until I’m ready. ”
“I thought I was ready before, but I wasn’t.”

“Maybe your first time was lousy, but it’ll be better this time.”
‘It won’t be better if I feel pressured.”
“What part of NO don’t you understand?”