You should let the people you date know you’ve chosen to wait and why.

  • Know your reasons for abstinence.
  • Be up front and very clear about your limits around sex.
  • If you are still seeing the person you had sex with before, let him or her know your reasons for saying no now.
  • If your date pressures you for sex, perhaps you want to call it quits.

You deserve someone who cares more about you than about sex.